Adult Friend Finder
Alt.com Personal Ads
Personal ads site for BDSM, fetish, alternative folks. (To cancel, you have to send an email titled "Resign Membership" to email@example.com containing your username, password, email addy, birthdate and zip code. Talk about overkill!)*
BDSM Contacts UK
|Bondage Personal Ads
Personal ads are permitted in Lorelei's bedroom bondage yahoo group. Come read, post or lurk!
Bondage Room at ChatHour.com
|Bondage.com Chat via Webpage
Bondage.com Personal Ads
|Bound and Gagged Forum
|Chatrooms at ALT.com
Chatrooms categorized by interest.*
Bondage suspension site that focuses on crucifixion positions. Interesting niche. Mostly nude suspension bondage and spread positions. Paysite, DVDs, and forum.
|Ds Kiosk Classifieds
BDSM personal ads.
Personal ads for gothic, fetish, bondage, alternative. Everything is free! Profiles, browsing, chat, events, more. Diverse group of friends and lovers. Layout note: this site is not designed for the internet-standard screen size of 1024x768, so most of you will have to scroll sideways. (I did...) Hopefully this design problem will be corrected soon.*
Free to enter fetish dating & community site with video/audio chat & upload, classifieds, groups, forums, blogs, freedom to advertise, galleries, add your own content & links... or find a soulmate
FetishClub Chat Webpage
Annual bondage/fetish convention, hosted by Vesta, Stacy Burke, Genesis Lynn and friends. Convention formerly known as BondCon NYC.*
Forums & Personals at CraigsList
Italian personal ads site. Some bondager listings. In Italiano and English.
Homeless person Blogs from Volgograd
Community website mainly for the UK BDSM scene. Personal ads, mistress directory, forums. Hosted by my longtime buddy Stan.
London Fetish Scene
|Lorelei at MyDungeonSpace
I don't use my page at MyDungeonSpace much any more... I'm more active at FetLife.com
This is a personal-ads site. It's not fetish-oriented, but it has a staggering number of single people using it. Type in your zip code and you'll see, there are tons of people within driving distance that you could meet.*
Notes on Safety for Meeting
Another social network website for "Alternative Lifestyles" such as poly, fet, bdsm etc. They won't let you see or read anything unless you register first.*
|Safe Call Service, by PEER
Planning on meeting someone for the first time? Or planning an abduction Scene? Arrange to check in with someone on the outside.
Owner/slave personals. Community of dedicated people interested in an Owner/slave lifestyle.
|Threshold Los Angeles - Yahoo Group
Forum to meet members of the Threshold BDSM/fetish club. (Local members include Lorelei & Jon, Dorothy Laine & Tim and other bondage aficionados.) Hang out and talk about BDSM/fetish, or ask questions about the club and its parties, gatherings and events.*
Ties That Bind BDSM Chat Community
|Yahoo's list of BDSM personal ad sites
*Special thanks to these
sites for linking to us!