Adult Friend Finder
Personal ads. Includes sections for bondage, discipline, fetishes, crossdressing.*

Alt.com Personal Ads
Find partners, penpals, friends, dates. Search categories include bondage, blindfolds, chains, cling film (saran wrap), crossdressing, domination, handcuffs, high heels, leather, foot fetish, spanking, roleplaying, whips, more. You can search by zip code or state, to see the people who are within driving distance of you.*

BDSM Contacts UK
Find your match. Mistresses, slaves, masters, TV's, more.*

BDSM-Fetish-Kink Discussion Forum

Bondage.com Chat via Webpage

Bound and Gagged Forum
Bondage forum.*

Chatrooms at ALT.com
Chatrooms categorized by interest.*

Cruxgirl-Net.com
Bondage suspension site that focuses on crucifixion positions. Interesting niche. Mostly nude suspension bondage and spread positions. Paysite, DVDs, and forum.

Ds Kiosk Classifieds
BDSM personal ads.

Fetbytes
Personal ads for gothic, fetish, bondage, alternative. Everything is free! Profiles, browsing, chat, events, more. Diverse group of friends and lovers. Layout note: this site is not designed for the internet-standard screen size of 1024x768, so most of you will have to scroll sideways. (I did...) Hopefully this design problem will be corrected soon.*

Fetish-Friend.com
Free to enter fetish dating & community site with video/audio chat & upload, classifieds, groups, forums, blogs, freedom to advertise, galleries, add your own content & links... or find a soulmate

FetishCon
Annual bondage/fetish convention, hosted by Vesta, Stacy Burke, Genesis Lynn and friends. Convention formerly known as BondCon NYC.*

Gabbia.com
Italian personal ads site. Some bondager listings. In Italiano and English.

Homeless person Blogs from Volgograd
blog on earnings in the Internet sites and move any other information

London Fetish Scene
News, reviews, articles, features, event calendar, letters, personal ads, photo gallery, message board, more.*

Lorelei at PolyKink.com
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Match.com
This is a personal-ads site. It's not fetish-oriented, but it has a staggering number of single people using it. Type in your zip code and you'll see, there are tons of people within driving distance that you could meet.*

NaughtyChat.com Chat via Webpage

polyKink
Another social network website for "Alternative Lifestyles" such as poly, fet, bdsm etc. They won't let you see or read anything unless you register first.*

Sacred Devotion: Master & Slave Forum
Forum community for couples or singles who wish to learn more, or share information about, a monogamous BDSM lifestyle. Hosted by Master A and boundkitten.

Second Life - Chat World
Visit Lorelei's bondage island in this adult chat world, where you assemble a unique cartoon person to be you, then interact with other people. You can chat, smile, wave at other people, jump with joy, and yes do bondage, and even have sex with other people. Bondage castles and other fun places to explore. Basic access is free. (When you arrive, send a message to "Lorelei Mission"!)*

Second Life force fantasies: Cait's Basement
Virtual chat and cyber-sex roleplay area for people interested in force fantasies. Free area hosted by CaitsBasement.com. Greater virtual world hosted by SecondLife.com.

Seducity Virtual World
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subslaveXchange
Owner/slave personals. Community of dedicated people interested in an Owner/slave lifestyle.

Threshold Los Angeles - Yahoo Group
Forum to meet members of the Threshold BDSM/fetish club. (Local members include Lorelei & Jon, Dorothy Laine & Tim and other bondage aficionados.) Hang out and talk about BDSM/fetish, or ask questions about the club and its parties, gatherings and events.*

Yahoo's list of BDSM personal ad sites