Lorelei's Links

Abductus Interruptus
What to do if police mistake your abduction roleplay for the real thing.

An Interrogation Scene
Read this with your partner, and discuss. If you participated in this scene, what activities would you have added? What sections of this scene would you not have done?

Animated Knots
Short animations of how to tie certain knots.

B.E.S.T. slave training
B.E.S.T. slave training is a method of slave training the places equal value on behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts. Training methods are developed for each area. Encouragement, punishment, discipline, logical consequences, and hypnosis are among the subjects discussed.

Backlash UK
The UK government seeks to criminalise material showing sexual practices that it doesn't approve of, even if they're between consenting adults. This site is a rallying point for BDSM practitioners.

BDSM Safety at FrugalDomme.com

BDSM/Fetish Kink Checklist
Negotiation form.

BDSM? What? Why? How?
Intended as an introduction to BDSM, this site is written for newcomers to BDSM. It contains information about BDSM, as well as links, resources, books, scenario ideas, and so on.

BodyBound
Group/club into rope and bondage. Meetings. Portland Oregon area / Vancouver Washington area.

Bondage Fun
Bondage primer by by Rob Jellinghaus.

Bondage Lessons
Bondage workshops by Max, presented locally and at clubs and conventions. Seminars such as "Bondage for Sex", "Fundamentals of Rope Bondage", "Rope Bondage 201", "Basic Suspension Bondage", "When Someone You Know is Switchy", more. Based in Washington State. Email newsletter too. (Partner of Mistress Matisse.)

Bondage Suspension Safety-Related - Harness Induced Pathology
Article on frog-style hip harnesses for cave exploration and how inhibition of circulation in the lower half can lead to fainting and death.

Bondage Tutorials by MorTis
Bondage how-to's. Sections include History of Shibari, Rope Safety, Basic Techniques, Bondage Positions, Emergencies, Rope sizes And Lengths. And lots of other positions and ties.

Bondage Tutorials
Link list of bondage how-to's and bondage techniques webpages.

Bondage University
Bondage techniques, rope bondage tying tips, information, education, glossary of bondage terms, articles, and advice about restraint play.

Bondage-Suspension Safety Related: Suspension Trauma
Wikipedia article about "Harness Hang Syndrome".

Brian's Page
Discussion forums for bondage scenes in movies and on TV. Also other forum topics. 

Caryl's BDSM and Fetish
Excellent site for new people exploring D/s and their fetishes. Articles about finding partners online, safety, links, personal ad resources, be sure to click the "caryl" link and read about her personal online experiences too.*

Censorship: The X-Rated Hoax
Article.

Chicago Rope And Mummification
Illinois. Monthly pansexual meeting for people who love rope and mummification. For any experience level from beginners to experts, and any style of rope bondage or mummification.

Chloroform and Liver Failure
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay.

Chloroform Death - 3 Cases
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay.

Chloroform Hazard Summary
Do not use real chloro during chloro roleplay.

Club Fetish Café
A place for lovers of all kinds of fetish: exclusive pictures from Club Fetish Café of Barcelona, events agenda, private ads/contacts, etc.

Cyber Rights and Cyber Liberties
UK Web site for free speech and privacy which fights against child pornography.

D/s Dangers & Precautions: Bondage and Suspension
Notes about suspension safety and gear.

Des Moines Area Discussion Group Productions
Non-profit corporation. Pansexual BDSM support group for heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered adults. Goal is to promote ethical values and know-how in the Scene through educational programs and general exchange of information.

FesselSpiele
German-language BDSM site.*

FetishCon
Annual bondage/fetish convention, hosted by Vesta, Stacy Burke, Genesis Lynn and friends. Convention formerly known as BondCon NYC.*

First Amendment Ally: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
NCSF - Legal help and advice for those being discriminated against due to alternative lifestyles or activities. Outreach, public awareness, more.

Hair Bondage Tips

HiddenCastle - BDSM Scene Etiquette
This page contains a list of local clubs, but the first half of the page is sheer gold for anyone involved in BDSM or fetish. Advice on club and peergroup etiquette, etc.

House Of Dreaddst
Forums and more. A site geared on the learning and education of the BDSM/Ds/Ms/Fetish. Demos on wax, fireplay, cupping,kink dictionary, booklist, bdsm quizzes, gallery, online store, house poetry, forum, submissive journals, more.

How-To Bondage Video/DVD
"Jay Wiseman Teaches Basic Rope Bondage" video $49.95. DVD now available too.

How-To Bondage Video
Another place to buy Jay Wiseman's how-to presentation.

Immediate Family, Inc.
A BDSM Safehouse/rescue project with resources throughout U.S., Canada and the U.K.

Iron Rose Community

Japanese Girl Roped
No.1 Japanse BDSM movie site in the U.S.

Journey Into Submission articles
Includes important links to articles on how to deal with being let go from a Dom/sub relationship.

Just Another Excuse to Censor
Article about studies of pornography "effects", etc.

Kesher
Israeli BDSM community.

Kink Aware Professionals
Psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, physicians who are not negatively judgemental of fetishism and BDSM.

Kink In Nanaimo (KIN)
Nanaimo, BC - This group is affiliated with Nanaimo BDSM. Holds regular play parties, workshops, and drop-ins.

Kink-Friendly Licensed Therapist
Samuel Allen, MA, NCC, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist located in NC, with telephone counseling available everywhere. Specialist in transgender issues. Kink/leather-friendly.

Knots on the Web - Peter Suber

KnottyBoys.com
"As experienced professional riggers, we Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) can show you how to put fun, safety and artistry into the ages-old discipline of rope play. Through our San Francisco based, hands-on workshops, Two Knotty Boys will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." Particularly fascinating overview of specific rope ties at http://www.knottyboys.com/Page11.htm

LolitaWolf's Rope Basics

Lone Wolf's Den
Site geared toward learning and education of the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM articles, book list, polls, photo gallery of personal scene pics, BDSM faq, more. 1200+ links including BDSM groups, organizations. (This is not the same Lone Wolf as the guy of Lone Wolf's Strange Page.)*

Lorelei's Self-Bondage Page
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Master David & lofty's Home Dungeon
See how this couple remodeled their basement into a dungeon.

Midori: FetishDiva.com
BDSM and bondage instruction, seminars, gallery, about Midori, more. Author of "The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage".

Mister Wolfe
Wolfe's blog. Top, Dom, polyamorous, bisexual, tattooed, porn-star... an individual of the Scene.*

Mummification Bondage For Fun
How to use Ace bandages to wrap your captive up Egyptian-mummy style.

Mythos Group - Calgary, Alberta
Pansexual/panfetish kinkster group. Monthly members-only meetings. Home of the Mythos Rubber Club.

Nawashi Syndrome - column by Mistress Matisse
Interesting viewpoint on the popularity of Japanese bondage, nawashi's, shibari, etc.

Negotiation Form for Bondage Play
Suggested negotiation form for bondage scenes. BondageUniversity.com.

NOSpace BDSM Malaysian Community
A place for BDSM Lifestyler around Malaysia and other country to have a place for learning, communicating, munch and sessions. You also may include your profile in this community for public viewing.

NY-Exotics.com
Escorts, adult entertainment, exotic related services in New York, Long Island and New Jersey areas. Listings of massage experts, escorts, VIP, fetish/roleplay, more. Free access.

OfWatch
Promoting the interests of adult subscription service viewers in the UK.

Pain Garden
Daily updated completely free galleries of pretty slaves in a various self bondage positions

Perverts Love Women
Essay by Brian Tarsis.*

Powerotics BDSM
BDSM information for dominant men and submissive women since 1993

Protective Order denied due to Slave Contract
Word to the wise.

RealKnots.com
Information about knots.

Revise f65
European network built to work towards the removal of Fetishism and SM as psychiatric diagnoses from the ICD, the International Classification of Diseases published by the World Health Organization (WHO).

Rhal's Furry MU*s Connector
List of furry MUCK and MUSH servers such as FurryMuck, FluffMuck, Furscape etc.

Rope Fashions
Rope techniques, tying how-to's, tips. Features: breast harness, rope bit-gag (2 types), hair bondage, single-limb tie (2 types), braided crotchrope, vibrating crotchrope, more.

Rope Tutorials at DS-arts.com
Use the menu on the left to look at various step-by-step instructions for oriental techniques in tying wrists, chest, crotch etc.

Ropecast.net
Podcasts about bondage, bdsm, related discussions, by Graydancer & guests.

RopeRigger.com
Online resource dedicated to the San Francisco Bay Area rope bondage scene. "Whether you’re new to the scene, a rope bondage enthusiast, a seasoned rope rigger, a host of rope bondage workshops or a web producer looking for a place to post jobs… RopeRigger.com is the online resource for you." Info about: rope bondage friendly events, rope bondage related workshops, rope bondage discussion groups, rope bondage practice groups, more.*

Sartan's Working With Leather
Comprehensive BDSM leatherworking resource.

Scenarios of Bondage Sex Play
At sextoys411.com.

SensationSM - BDSM french portal
BDSM and fetish portal with ads, pics, chat, movies and more - free for couples and women

Sexual Bondage - Wikipedia article

Sexual Freedom Coalition
"Sexual Freedom is the freedom to enjoy consensual adult sexual activities in private (and secluded places), whether it is paid sex, free sex, married sex, sex with strangers, gay sex, sex involving people with disabilities, people engaging in consensual BDSM, and a combination of these things. Sexual Freedom is the freedom of adults to see, hear or experience any kinds of sexual entertainment, although the creation of such entertainment should not involve exploitation or sexual abuse."

Shibari and Bondage How-To Links

slaven
Netherlands BDSM site.

SM Lovers - Netherlands
Two SM couples: Lady Madelon & Roger, and Lady Adila & Colin. Their contracts, photos, writings, etc.

SM Precautions

SM Pride
The role of SM Pride is to build a communication, information, education and support network for members of the BDSM community; and promote for the acceptance of, and the right for all adults to engage in, the safe, sane and consensual exploration of SM practices and BDSM as a sexuality with a view to facilitating reduction of stereotypical beliefs, misconceptions and media misrepresentation about BDSM in the community as a whole. (UK)

SM Squaddie Skinhead Biker
Reflections of a London squaddie skinhead biker. Interests: submission wrestling, leather biker, pony, medical doctor fantasies; rope bondage, boots & shorts or naked hiking, backpacking. Seeking private safe mutual fun, weapon-free, non-commercial and non-political.

Sound Bites for the SM/Leather/Fetish Community
When representing BDSM or fetishes to the media, "out of a 1/2 hour long interview, you will be on the air for about 10 seconds, which is usually one or two of your sound bites. Or you get one quote in an article. So don't ad lib." Here are the messages that work best to explain alternative sexual practices to the general public.

ST BDSM Ezine
Feed your kink! E-Zine for those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Accurate, free and erotic. Learn about BDSM practices, sexuality, health, safety, erotica, reviews, poetry, humor, photography, art.*

Submissive Women Speak
Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.*

Subspace
A BDSM resource center with message boards, an extensive library, erotica, a listing of lifestyle organizations, and more.

Superheroines in Bondage Forum

Suppression of Sexual Diversity in Art
Article at website of National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.

Tammad: Gentleman Barbarian (and rope lover!)
A good selection of essays on BDSM by this engaging man. Includes his how-to page and negotiation list.*

The BDSM Circle / Le Cercle BDSM
Real life bdsm, 24/7 Master/slave couple, Fem domme, Male dom, erotic stories and pictures, lifestyle advice by real players, large humour section, links, gallery, advice.

The Dominant's View
A free BDSM eZine for today’s dominant information, education and entertainment. Articles, photography, reviews, humor, erotica, how to’s, and more.*

The Furry Code
Learn about the Furry Code, encode your own furry interests, decode another furry's interests.

The Isle of Pain and Pleasure
BDSM/fetish FAQ, stories, poems, personal ads, advice. In Swedish and English.

The Pillow Book Online
"Words, dreams and images of a cyber geisha." Leila Raven, aka Mistress Katt, keeps this online journal of her thoughts and experiences in ageplay and related BDSM/fetish play. Aby blog.

The Spanner Trust
The Spanner Trust exists to defend the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientations and specifically to reverse the UK court ruling which made certain SM activities illegal even though all parties consent. (UK)

Tied Up in Malaysia MSN Group
For adults wishing to discuss or open up on topics such as bondage, domination or aspects of S&M. Safe Sane and Consensual. Posting links to BDSM related sites in the 'Links' section, posting pics of personal encounters, and enjoyment.

Toward a Lasting Romantic Relationship
Essay with many points that are particularly important for fetishists to consider.

View Exotica
Blog, links, discussion of fetishes; thoughts by Anonyma.

When Good Scenes go Bad
Tongue-in-cheek response to those in the Scene who are pushing Safe-Sane-Consensual a little too hard. Article by Elaine Miller, from the Slap & Tickle series.

Wichita First Friday Munch

Wings of Fire Survivors
Information, educational and resource center for abuse survivors and secondary survivors in the BDSM Lifestyle.

XXXExpose Interview
A strange psuedo-interview of two producers talking to each other about their documentary. The resulting site is gone but this interview survives. Allegations of brainwashing techniques and cult lifestyle at Insex.com's studios. Unusual reading up to extreme interpretations.

Young Rozes - BDSM in Belgium
Organisation for people from 18 til 35 years old seeking contact. Meetings and parties in Belguim.

 


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