Lorelei's Links
Abductus Interruptus
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An Interrogation Scene
Read this with your partner, and discuss. If you participated in this scene, what activities would you have added? What sections of this scene would you not have done? |
Animated Knots
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B.E.S.T. slave training
B.E.S.T. slave training is a method of slave training the places equal value on behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts. Training methods are developed for each area. Encouragement, punishment, discipline, logical consequences, and hypnosis are among the subjects discussed. |
Backlash UK
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BDSM Safety at FrugalDomme.com
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BDSM/Fetish Kink Checklist
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BDSM? What? Why? How?
Intended as an introduction to BDSM, this site is written for newcomers to BDSM. It contains information about BDSM, as well as links, resources, books, scenario ideas, and so on. |
BodyBound
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Bondage Fun
Bondage primer by by Rob Jellinghaus. |
Bondage Lessons
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Bondage Suspension Safety-Related - Harness Induced Pathology
Article on frog-style hip harnesses for cave exploration and how inhibition of circulation in the lower half can lead to fainting and death. |
Bondage Tutorials by MorTis
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Bondage Tutorials
Link list of bondage how-to's and bondage techniques webpages. |
Bondage University
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Bondage-Suspension Safety Related: Suspension Trauma
Wikipedia article about "Harness Hang Syndrome". |
Brian's Page
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Caryl's BDSM and Fetish
Excellent site for new people exploring D/s and their fetishes. Articles about finding partners online, safety, links, personal ad resources, be sure to click the "caryl" link and read about her personal online experiences too.* |
Censorship: The X-Rated Hoax
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Chicago Rope And Mummification
Illinois. Monthly pansexual meeting for people who love rope and mummification. For any experience level from beginners to experts, and any style of rope bondage or mummification. |
Chloroform and Liver Failure
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Chloroform Death - 3 Cases
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay. |
Chloroform Hazard Summary
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Club Fetish Café
A place for lovers of all kinds of fetish: exclusive pictures from Club Fetish Café of Barcelona, events agenda, private ads/contacts, etc. |
Cyber Rights and Cyber Liberties
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D/s Dangers & Precautions: Bondage and Suspension
Notes about suspension safety and gear. |
Des Moines Area Discussion Group Productions
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FesselSpiele
German-language BDSM site.* |
FetishCon
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First Amendment Ally: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
NCSF - Legal help and advice for those being discriminated against due to alternative lifestyles or activities. Outreach, public awareness, more. |
HiddenCastle - BDSM Scene Etiquette
This page contains a list of local clubs, but the first half of the page is sheer gold for anyone involved in BDSM or fetish. Advice on club and peergroup etiquette, etc. |
House Of Dreaddst
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How-To Bondage Video/DVD
"Jay Wiseman Teaches Basic Rope Bondage" video $49.95. DVD now available too. |
How-To Bondage Video
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Immediate Family, Inc.
A BDSM Safehouse/rescue project with resources throughout U.S., Canada and the U.K. |
Japanese Girl Roped
No.1 Japanse BDSM movie site in the U.S. |
Journey Into Submission articles
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Just Another Excuse to Censor
Article about studies of pornography "effects", etc. |
Kesher
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Kink Aware Professionals
Psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, physicians who are not negatively judgemental of fetishism and BDSM. |
Kink In Nanaimo (KIN)
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Kink-Friendly Licensed Therapist
Samuel Allen, MA, NCC, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist located in NC, with telephone counseling available everywhere. Specialist in transgender issues. Kink/leather-friendly. |
KnottyBoys.com
"As experienced professional riggers, we Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) can show you how to put fun, safety and artistry into the ages-old discipline of rope play. Through our San Francisco based, hands-on workshops, Two Knotty Boys will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." Particularly fascinating overview of specific rope ties at http://www.knottyboys.com/Page11.htm |
Lone Wolf's Den
Site geared toward learning and education of the BDSM lifestyle. BDSM articles, book list, polls, photo gallery of personal scene pics, BDSM faq, more. 1200+ links including BDSM groups, organizations. (This is not the same Lone Wolf as the guy of Lone Wolf's Strange Page.)* |
Master David & lofty's Home Dungeon
See how this couple remodeled their basement into a dungeon. |
Midori: FetishDiva.com
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Mister Wolfe
Wolfe's blog. Top, Dom, polyamorous, bisexual, tattooed, porn-star... an individual of the Scene.* |
Mummification Bondage For Fun
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Mythos Group - Calgary, Alberta
Pansexual/panfetish kinkster group. Monthly members-only meetings. Home of the Mythos Rubber Club. |
Nawashi Syndrome - column by Mistress Matisse
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Negotiation Form for Bondage Play
Suggested negotiation form for bondage scenes. BondageUniversity.com. |
NOSpace BDSM Malaysian Community
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NY-Exotics.com
Escorts, adult entertainment, exotic related services in New York, Long Island and New Jersey areas. Listings of massage experts, escorts, VIP, fetish/roleplay, more. Free access. |
OfWatch
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Pain Garden
Daily updated completely free galleries of pretty slaves in a various self bondage positions |
Perverts Love Women
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Powerotics BDSM
BDSM information for dominant men and submissive women since 1993 |
Protective Order denied due to Slave Contract
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RealKnots.com
Information about knots. |
Revise f65
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Rhal's Furry MU*s Connector
List of furry MUCK and MUSH servers such as FurryMuck, FluffMuck, Furscape etc. |
Rope Fashions
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Rope Tutorials at DS-arts.com
Use the menu on the left to look at various step-by-step instructions for oriental techniques in tying wrists, chest, crotch etc. |
Ropecast.net
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RopeRigger.com
Online resource dedicated to the San Francisco Bay Area rope bondage scene. "Whether you’re new to the scene, a rope bondage enthusiast, a seasoned rope rigger, a host of rope bondage workshops or a web producer looking for a place to post jobs… RopeRigger.com is the online resource for you." Info about: rope bondage friendly events, rope bondage related workshops, rope bondage discussion groups, rope bondage practice groups, more.* |
Sartan's Working With Leather
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Scenarios of Bondage Sex Play
At sextoys411.com. |
SensationSM - BDSM french portal
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Sexual Bondage - Wikipedia article
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Sexual Freedom Coalition
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Shibari and Bondage How-To Links
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slaven
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SM Lovers - Netherlands
Two SM couples: Lady Madelon & Roger, and Lady Adila & Colin. Their contracts, photos, writings, etc. |
SM Pride
The role of SM Pride is to build a communication, information, education and support network for members of the BDSM community; and promote for the acceptance of, and the right for all adults to engage in, the safe, sane and consensual exploration of SM practices and BDSM as a sexuality with a view to facilitating reduction of stereotypical beliefs, misconceptions and media misrepresentation about BDSM in the community as a whole. (UK) |
SM Squaddie Skinhead Biker
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Sound Bites for the SM/Leather/Fetish Community
When representing BDSM or fetishes to the media, "out of a 1/2 hour long interview, you will be on the air for about 10 seconds, which is usually one or two of your sound bites. Or you get one quote in an article. So don't ad lib." Here are the messages that work best to explain alternative sexual practices to the general public. |
ST BDSM Ezine
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Submissive Women Speak
Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.* |
Subspace
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Superheroines in Bondage Forum
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Suppression of Sexual Diversity in Art
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Tammad: Gentleman Barbarian (and rope lover!)
A good selection of essays on BDSM by this engaging man. Includes his how-to page and negotiation list.* |
The BDSM Circle / Le Cercle BDSM
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The Dominant's View
A free BDSM eZine for today’s dominant information, education and entertainment. Articles, photography, reviews, humor, erotica, how to’s, and more.* |
The Furry Code
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The Isle of Pain and Pleasure
BDSM/fetish FAQ, stories, poems, personal ads, advice. In Swedish and English. |
The Pillow Book Online
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The Spanner Trust
The Spanner Trust exists to defend the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientations and specifically to reverse the UK court ruling which made certain SM activities illegal even though all parties consent. (UK) |
Tied Up in Malaysia MSN Group
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Toward a Lasting Romantic Relationship
Essay with many points that are particularly important for fetishists to consider. |
View Exotica
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When Good Scenes go Bad
Tongue-in-cheek response to those in the Scene who are pushing Safe-Sane-Consensual a little too hard. Article by Elaine Miller, from the Slap & Tickle series. |
Wings of Fire Survivors
Information, educational and resource center for abuse survivors and secondary survivors in the BDSM Lifestyle. |
XXXExpose Interview
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Young Rozes - BDSM in Belgium
Organisation for people from 18 til 35 years old seeking contact. Meetings and parties in Belguim. |
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