Lorelei's Links
| Abductus Interruptus
What to do if police mistake your abduction roleplay for the real thing. |
An Interrogation Scene
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| Animated Knots
Short animations of how to tie certain knots. |
Autumn Tears
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| B.E.S.T. slave training
B.E.S.T. slave training is a method of slave training the places equal value on behavior, emotions, self-image and thoughts. Training methods are developed for each area. Encouragement, punishment, discipline, logical consequences, and hypnosis are among the subjects discussed. |
Backlash UK
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| Bay Area Women of Color BDSM Photo Project
Mission is to expand the aesthetic and cultural perception of the BDSM community by promoting artistically tasteful photographic images of Women of Color in BDSM. |
| BDSM Talk: section12.com
Forum, articles, dicussions, journals, weblogs. |
BDSM/Fetish Kink Checklist
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| BDSM? What? Why? How?
Intended as an introduction to BDSM, this site is written for newcomers to BDSM. It contains information about BDSM, as well as links, resources, books, scenario ideas, and so on. |
Better BDSM
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| BodyBound
Group/club into rope and bondage. Meetings. Portland Oregon area / Vancouver Washington area. |
Bondage community
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| Bondage Forum & Message Board
Discussions, musings and dialogues about bondage. Hosted by Lorelei. |
Bondage Fun
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| Bondage is Freedom
Article by Elaine Miller, from the Slap & Tickle series. |
Bondage Lessons
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| Bondage Tutorials by MorTis
Bondage how-to's. Sections include History of Shibari, Rope Safety, Basic Techniques, Bondage Positions, Emergencies, Rope sizes And Lengths. And lots of other positions and ties. |
Bondage Tutorials
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| Bondage University
Bondage techniques, rope bondage tying tips, information, education, glossary of bondage terms, articles, and advice about restraint play. |
Breast Bondage Techniques
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| Breath Control - Dangers
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Brian's Page
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| Caryl's BDSM and Fetish
Excellent site for new people exploring D/s and their fetishes. Articles about finding partners online, safety, links, personal ad resources, be sure to click the "caryl" link and read about her personal online experiences too.* |
Censorship: The X-Rated Hoax
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| Cheap Bondage by Master Rick
Do-it-yourself inexpensive bondage projects. |
Checklist for BDSM Scene Preferences
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| Chicago Rope And Mummification
Illinois. Monthly pansexual meeting for people who love rope and mummification. For any experience level from beginners to experts, and any style of rope bondage or mummification. |
Chloroform and Death
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| Chloroform and Liver Failure
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay. |
Chloroform Death - 3 Cases
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| Chloroform Hazard Summary
Do not use real chloro during chloro roleplay. |
Chloroform Poisoning First Aid
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| Chloroform Toxicity
Do not use real chloroform during chloro roleplay. |
Club Fetish Café
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| Cyber Rights and Cyber Liberties
UK Web site for free speech and privacy which fights against child pornography. |
D/s Dangers & Precautions: Bondage and Suspension
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| DeLano Bound
DeLano's personal exploration of his bondage life. Bound by beautiful bondage partners, binding beautiful bondage partners. The site examines connection and intent in bondage play and bondage art.* |
Des Moines Area Discussion Group Productions
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| Desire - Leather Women Unleashed
Annual gathering in Palm Springs of BDSM/fetish women. For play, presentations, one-on-one sessions, and frolicking naked in the outdoor pool. |
Enactcane Disciplinarian
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| Erotimania
Mistress Katt's human sexuality resource site. Articles, personal ads, e-cards, forums, stories. |
Feminists Against Censorship
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| FesselSpiele
German-language BDSM site.* |
Fetisch.ch - German BDSM and Bondage Community
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| FetishCon fun
One photographer's description of a night at FetishCon. :) |
FetishCon
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| First Amendment Ally: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Legal help and advice for those being discriminated against due to alternative lifestyles or activities. Outreach, public awareness, more. |
Guide to Dealing With the Police
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| Hair Bondage Tips
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| Helios Project
Graphic bondage tutorials and discussion of bondage techniques; frank dialog and depictions of bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation and other BDSM related sexual practices. Forum, pics. |
Help Links at ProDomination.com
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| HiddenCastle - BDSM Scene Etiquette
This page contains a list of local clubs, but the first half of the page is sheer gold for anyone involved in BDSM or fetish. Advice on club and peergroup etiquette, etc. |
Homemade Fetish Gear
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| House Of Dreaddst
Forums and more. A site geared on the learning and education of the BDSM/Ds/Ms/Fetish. Demos on wax, fireplay, cupping,kink dictionary, booklist, bdsm quizzes, gallery, online store, house poetry, forum, submissive journals, more. |
How to tie Rope Cuffs
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| How-To Bondage Video/DVD
"Jay Wiseman Teaches Basic Rope Bondage" video $49.95. DVD now available too. |
How-To Bondage Video
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| Immediate Family, Inc.
A BDSM Safehouse/rescue project with resources throughout U.S., Canada and the U.K. |
| Japanese Girl Roped
No.1 Japanse BDSM movie site in the U.S. |
Journey Into Submission articles
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| Just Another Excuse to Censor
Article about studies of pornography "effects", etc. |
Kesher
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| Kink Aware Professionals
Psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, physicians who are not negatively judgemental of fetishism and BDSM. |
Kink In Nanaimo (KIN)
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| Kink-Friendly Licensed Therapist
Samuel Allen, MA, NCC, LPC is a licensed psychotherapist located in NC, with telephone counseling available everywhere. Specialist in transgender issues. Kink/leather-friendly. |
| KnottyBoys.com
"As experienced professional riggers, we Two Knotty Boys (JD and Dan) can show you how to put fun, safety and artistry into the ages-old discipline of rope play. Through our San Francisco based, hands-on workshops, Two Knotty Boys will shape your skills in quickly tying restraints that are as beautiful as they are functional. Our goal is to demystify bondage and put the fun into it, all the while making it safer and much more aesthetically pleasing." Particularly fascinating overview of specific rope ties at http://www.knottyboys.com/Page11.htm |
Living Doll House
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| LolitaWolf's Rope Basics
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Lone Wolf's Den
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| Lorelei's Self-Bondage Page
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Master David & lofty's Home Dungeon
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| Midori: FetishDiva.com
BDSM and bondage instruction, seminars, gallery, about Midori, more. Author of "The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage". |
Mister Wolfe
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| Mummification Bondage For Fun
How to use Ace bandages to wrap your captive up Egyptian-mummy style. |
Mythos Group - Calgary, Alberta
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| Nawashi Syndrome - column by Mistress Matisse
Interesting viewpoint on the popularity of Japanese bondage, nawashi's, shibari, etc. |
Negotiation Form for Bondage Play
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| NOSpace BDSM Malaysian Community
A place for BDSM Lifestyler around Malaysia and other country to have a place for learning, communicating, munch and sessions. You also may include your profile in this community for public viewing. |
NY-Exotics.com
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| OfWatch
Promoting the interests of adult subscription service viewers in the UK. |
Pain Garden
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| Partnership/Commitment Compatibility Test
I keep telling the models I meet, many of whom are in their 20s, that the belief "Love Conquers All" is not correct. Often these ladies get into love relationships and are stuck for years trying to make things work right. Love does not conquer all, and the first person you fall in love with is not necessarily the right person for you. Look at this test and think about it... |
Perverts Love Women
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| Powerotics BDSM
BDSM information for dominant men and submissive women since 1993 |
Protective Order denied due to Slave Contract
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| RealKnots.com
Information about knots. |
Revise f65
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| Rhal's Furry MU*s Connector
List of furry MUCK and MUSH servers such as FurryMuck, FluffMuck, Furscape etc. |
Rope Fashions
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| Rope Tutorials at DS-arts.com
Use the menu on the left to look at various step-by-step instructions for oriental techniques in tying wrists, chest, crotch etc. |
Ropecast.net
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| RopeRigger.com
Online resource dedicated to the San Francisco Bay Area rope bondage scene. "Whether you’re new to the scene, a rope bondage enthusiast, a seasoned rope rigger, a host of rope bondage workshops or a web producer looking for a place to post jobs… RopeRigger.com is the online resource for you." Info about: rope bondage friendly events, rope bondage related workshops, rope bondage discussion groups, rope bondage practice groups, more.* |
Sartan's Working With Leather
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| Scenarios of Bondage Sex Play
At sextoys411.com. |
Second Life - Chat World
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| SensationSM - BDSM french portal
BDSM and fetish portal with ads, pics, chat, movies and more - free for couples and women |
| Sexual Freedom Coalition
"Sexual Freedom is the freedom to enjoy consensual adult sexual activities in private (and secluded places), whether it is paid sex, free sex, married sex, sex with strangers, gay sex, sex involving people with disabilities, people engaging in consensual BDSM, and a combination of these things. Sexual Freedom is the freedom of adults to see, hear or experience any kinds of sexual entertainment, although the creation of such entertainment should not involve exploitation or sexual abuse." |
| slaven
Netherlands BDSM site. |
SM Lovers - Netherlands
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| SM Precautions
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SM Pride
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| SM Squaddie Skinhead Biker
Reflections of a London squaddie skinhead biker. Interests: submission wrestling, leather biker, pony, medical doctor fantasies; rope bondage, boots & shorts or naked hiking, backpacking. Seeking private safe mutual fun, weapon-free, non-commercial and non-political. |
Sound Bites for the SM/Leather/Fetish Community
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| ST BDSM Ezine
Feed your kink! E-Zine for those interested in the BDSM Lifestyle. Accurate, free and erotic. Learn about BDSM practices, sexuality, health, safety, erotica, reviews, poetry, humor, photography, art.* |
Submissive BDSM Play Partner Checklist
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| Submissive Women Speak
Reality-based information and advice for submissive women and the people who love them.* |
Subspace
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| Superheroines in Bondage Forum
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Suppression of Sexual Diversity in Art
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| Tammad: Gentleman Barbarian (and rope lover!)
A good selection of essays on BDSM by this engaging man. Includes his how-to page and negotiation list.* |
The BDSM Circle / Le Cercle BDSM
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| The Did-tionary
Glossary of damsel terminology. |
The Dominant's View
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| The Furry Code
Learn about the Furry Code, encode your own furry interests, decode another furry's interests. |
The Home HandyMan's Bondage Dungeon
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| The Isle of Pain and Pleasure
BDSM/fetish FAQ, stories, poems, personal ads, advice. In Swedish and English. |
The Pillow Book Online
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| The Spanner Trust
The Spanner Trust exists to defend the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientations and specifically to reverse the UK court ruling which made certain SM activities illegal even though all parties consent. (UK) |
Tied Up in Malaysia MSN Group
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| Toward a Lasting Romantic Relationship
Essay with many points that are particularly important for fetishists to consider. |
Under Your Spell
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| When Good Scenes go Bad
Tongue-in-cheek response to those in the Scene who are pushing Safe-Sane-Consensual a little too hard. Article by Elaine Miller, from the Slap & Tickle series. |
| Will Your Safety Harness Kill You?
Issues of chest-area suspension harnesses. Article may be of interest to those who do bondage suspension. |
Wings of Fire Survivors
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| XXXExpose Interview
A strange psuedo-interview of two producers talking to each other about their documentary. The resulting site is gone but this interview survives. Allegations of brainwashing techniques and cult lifestyle at Insex.com's studios. Unusual reading up to extreme interpretations. |
Young Rozes - BDSM in Belgium
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