BDSM/Fetish Community: The Scene
CyberCommunity sites, popular culture, info, FAQs, education, connections

Alt.com
Alternative Lifestyles, BDSM, etc. personals directory.

AltSex:BDSM

Ask Jeeves
A great source for BDSM articles and information.

BDSM - a search list
BBS, spanking, chat, femdom, Gor, tickling, etc.

BDSM Links-German

Bondage University
Get your diploma in higher education! This is my site with all of my articles and information on bondage and how to do it safely. 

The Castle Realm
Great articles about BDSM, the scene, Ds relationships, love and fetish.  You'll spend hours at this site and really enjoy yourself.

Culture:Sexuality:BDSM
Amazing index of BDSM sites.

Deja News - US West Yellow Pages - chat groups

Different Loving: The ABCs of D&S
You've read the book, now get completely immersed in the site.  The site is almost as overwhelming as the book of fetish interviews is.  Also info about "Sub Women Speak."

*Ds Kiosk
Excellent Ds/fetish community site. Natasha's diary, bulletin board, lit listing.

Erik Renfield's BDSM page

Etiquette for the Scene
Good reference for "scene" manners.

Fem-DomNetwork
Sign up to receive information about real Domme sessions, as well as photos, video, and more.

Fetbot
A well-organized listing of BDSM and Fetish sites of all kinds.

Ginger Grant
Offers a large list of TV sites, as well as some of her own bondage and fetish photos.

International Association of Rubberists
A gathering place for those wishing to communicate with other like-minded fetishists.

Leather Online! - articles, excellent index, basics
Includes Personality Types of Bondage Subs

Leatherrose
Community and Commercial

News-Sniffer
Newsgroup/Usenet listings, etc.

*Persian Kitty
Links to sites with free fetish content.  Huge listings of sites.

Sparrow's Subnation
Lots of articles - beginner's guide, safety, chat info, more.

Tom's Play Pen
Friendly personal site of a Player. Cool idea: toy-bag tour. Links to metal and hi-fet sites. Also displays the Leather Pride/BDSM flag, in case you haven't seen what that looks like yet.

Upskirts and Pantyhose Links
Links to pantyhose, upskirt, voyeuristic, and bondage sites, as well as a free photo gallery and much more.

Westom
Personal info about a gay couple's D/s relationships, as well as an interesting letter fight about not allowing gay partners at a family reunion.

BDSM Academy
Great list of links to Yahoo! Groups.

 

Personals

LA Exotics Connections
Last I looked, bondage/fetish model Angella Faith was available in the Fetish section.

Loving More Web Personals

Yahoo Sex Personals Ads

 

Negotiation Forms

 Bondage Negotiation
Written by me!

Negotiation Form
Has specific questions for the Dom to answer. Also, detailed medical/health questions.

Pre-Scene Negotiation Questionaire
This is set up to be used as a copy/paste email, but it can easily be printed as well.

Scene Negotiation by Leather N Roses

 

 

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Updated 11/08/2001 by Links Team Surfer #2
Updated 917/2005 by Links Team Surfer #1